Tuesday, May 19, 2009

A Man





I read this poem on one of the blogs I visit. It is about a man.



Sometimes we do wonder why do we need a man in our lives.

Most of us thought we do not need a man.
Some of us wander around looking for a man.
Most of us grumble about the man we have in our lives.
But all of us want the perfect man.



As Nira put in her own words on what she look for in a man...



a man who knows how to appreciate the things I do for him.

a man who pampers me with something that money can't buy

a man who knows his mistakes and try to make it right.

a man who can be my pillow whenever i need someone to lean on.

a man who knows when to give in and let down his pride.

a man who communicates, listens and responds

a man who respects me, my family and his.

a man who enjoys what life has to offer.

a man who can say yes or no instead of 'anything'.
I would say... a man who knows when to make a good decision

a man who won't keep me waiting though the day or night.

a man who (at least) try figure out what's going on inside me and resolve it.
Now, sometimes, we need to speak out...but getting someone to figure what's inside our head is interesting, eh?


a man who helps the relationship work when it gets tough
This is so important in a relationship because it is not a walk in the park.

a man who'd never lay his hand on (another) woman
Hah! A man who does are all idiots and should be burnt in hell

a man who works hard and plan well for his future
True, and also put his wife and family in all the plans he has...

a man who is motivated

a man who takes responsibility for his actions

a man who gives me freedom that I need.

a man who loves me with no doubts.
Because I love my man without any doubt. Love is simple. We're the ones who make it complicated.


And, to all women out there, cherish your man for who he is despite his flaws.
Because we're not perfect ourselves.




Take less, expect less ... give more.




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